Over the weekend, one of my friends text me asking about countertops. She’s in the middle of building a home, and her builder was requesting her countertop material. In the midst of decision fatigue, she rang for advice (which I was happy to share). She wanted natural stone, but wasn’t sure which one… and there are tons of options. Today, I’m breaking down the difference between natural stones. I’ve talked a lot about it here on the blog over the years and have used just about every kind in my design projects, but I never actually lined them up side-by-side. So today, I’m walking you through the differences between each natural stone I commonly recommend, and we’re breaking down the pros and cons of each. Click through or save this post for your next renovation!
Whether you’re working on a new build, starting a kitchen renovation, or are just curious about material options, I hope this guide helps you choose the right stone for your home. And since you’re here, I’d recommend reading this design discussion about natural versus engineered materials. Nine times out of ten, I’m team natural materials. I hope this comparison guide helps you choose your home materials wisely… from countertops to floor and wall tile, these natural materials have my designer stamp of approval. Let’s dive in!
Why Stone Selection Matters
Choosing the right natural stone is about more than just looks. These materials are an investment, and they do more than cover a surface. The stone you choose sets the tone for your home, holds up to everyday use, and often adds long-term value. I’ve helped many clients weigh options between marble, soapstone, and quartzite- and I always remind them to think about both aesthetic and practicality. Each stone comes with its own personality and maintenance routine, so I like to be realistic when helping homeowners choose what’s best for their space.

Stone by Stone Breakdown
Most natural stones work beautifully both indoors and out. I mean, they come straight from the earth, so they’re materials that last. That said, some stones are tougher than others depending on where you use them. Here’s a breakdown of the pros and cons of each…
Marble
Marble is definitely one of the most popular stones, and it’s easy to see why. It’s beautiful, easy to source, and adds that classic, high-end look. As a designer, it’s usually at the top of my list when I’m working on a space that needs a timeless touch. Since there are so many different types of marble, be sure to read my guide on how to choose a marble slab for your renovation!

PROS:
- Easy to source and visually timeless
- Provides a high-end, designer or historic look
- Can be used anywhere- indoors and out
- Naturally cool stone… great for cooking & baking
- Patina builds character with time
- Classic aesthetic
- A long-term stone that has staying power & lasts
- Lots of variety from slab-to-slab… lots of colors, veining patterns, etc…
CONS:
- Very porous and prone to stains and etching
- Can be costly- it’s an investment stone
- Patina can be bothersome to some
- Needs regular sealing and requires gentle cleaners
- Vulnerable to acids- including those commonly found in the kitchen
- Can scratch easily
Granite
Granite is one of those go-to choices that builders and homeowners both tend to love. It’s easy on the budget compared to other natural stones, and it really holds up over time. I’ve used it in plenty of projects when durability is a top priority, and it doesn’t hurt that there’s such a wide range of colors and patterns to pick from. Some colors and patterns are more timeless than others… but leathered black granite is certainly having a moment.

PROS:
- Extremely durable and heat resistant
- Large pattern and color range
- Naturally bacteria resistant
- More affordable than other natural stones
- Resistant to cracking
- Not affected by acidic spills- like citrus, coffee, tea, alcohol, wine, etc
- Nearly impossible to scratch
- Difficult to stain
CONS:
- Can be difficult to fabricate
- Can easily fall out of style, depending on the slab selection
- Requires regular resealing
Soapstone
This is one of my personal favorites, as we’ve used it as our countertop material in our last two kitchen remodels. Check out this post to read why we used soapstone in our kitchen… again. It’s durable, has lots of character, a timeless look, and is easy to maintain. I think it achieves a very classic or historic aesthetic. It can also be enhanced for a totally different, dark look. Be sure to read my post on how to darken soapstone countertops, if you’re considering them!

PROS:
- Heat resistant
- Stain resistant, because it’s non porous
- Very durable
- Antimicrobial and bacteria resistant
- Eco friendly & chemical free
- Can be used indoors and out
- Low maintenance- no sealing required, but it can be oiled, waxed, or enhanced
- Accessible and moderately priced
CONS:
- Depending on the slab and quarry, it can take on a green look- which some find unappealing
- Softer than other stones, so it can chip and scratch
- Not as widely available
- Wears unevenly
- More expensive to fabricate or install
Quartzite
If you’re going for that marble look but need something a bit more durable, quartzite is a solid choice. It gives you a similar aesthetic, without the worry of staining or wear… which is why I often recommend it for hardworking spaces, like kitchens.

PROS:
- Looks similar to marble
- Tough like granite
- Heat and UV resistant
- Mostly resistant to staining
- Many different color variations to choose from
- Mostly resistant to acids that cause etching
CONS:
- Can still scratch or stain without proper care
- Often more expensive
- Not all slabs are created equal
Serpentine
Serpentine isn’t a natural stone I’m often asked about, but when I do- it’s usually because someone thinks it’s a dark marble or green soapstone. I get it… they look really similar, but serpentine is actually a bit tougher when it comes to acid and scratches, which makes it a smart alternative if you’re after that marbled look without the extra upkeep.

PROS:
- Etch resistant and non porous
- Holds up well to daily use
- Looks like marble but requires less care
- Beautiful veining and variation
CONS:
- It’s only available in one color: green or dark green
- It’s softer than granite, so it can chip
- Can be difficult to find a nice slab
- Wears unevenly
Slate
If you’re after something neutral and timeless, slate might be worth a look. I love the rustic, old world charm it add to a space- especially when used in traditional or outdoor settings. I think at some point in our home renovation, you’ll definitely see me integrating some sort of slate materials!

PROS:
- Classically attractive
- Works both indoors and outside
- Easy to work with and fabricate
- Nice textural look
- Soft and textural
- Resistant to cracks, scratches, breaks, and chips
- Resistant to freezing and thawing
- Great texture underfoot, for floor use
CONS:
- Texture may not be ideal for all surfaces
- Can be cold to the touch
- Susceptible to moisture issues
Limestone
Limestone always has this beautiful, historic, charming look. The tile in our entryway has a soft and tumbled European look that I really enjoy. Tumbled limestone adds an especially nice texture, and while it might be trending, I see it as a classic that never really goes out of style.

PROS:
- Easy to shape & fabricate
- Can be used indoors, out, and for structural elements
- Tumbled texture and old world feel
- Texture and patina improves over time
- Texture provides traction underfoot
- Timeless and earthy
CONS:
- Susceptible to acidity and etching- it’s porous
- May stain, since it is chemically susceptible
- Fewer color choices
- Requires maintenance and sealing

Things I Think About When Choosing Stone
Whenever I’m sourcing natural stone for a space, I always ask myself a few things:
- Where will this stone go and what kind of wear will it get?
- Do I have the time or patience for regular sealing?
- Will patina bother me or will I welcome it as part of the charm?
- What is my budget for this project?
- How will this stone be applied or installed?
I love mixing stones across a home to keep things interesting and layered, but always make sure they complement each other and the architecture of our home.

FAQ
You’ll need to choose the finish- either honed (matte) or polished (glossy), as well as your preferred edge profile. Check out this post on how to select different countertop edge profiles! These details should be communicated with your fabricator sooner rather than later, because they will influence the price of your countertop fabrication.
Yes- and I always recommend treating the sealing like a yearly maintenance routine. Add it as a repeating event in your annual calendar and set a reminder! It’s so easy to forget, but it protects the surface, especially if you’re working with marble or granite. Some stones like soapstone don’t need it, but most do. Sealing once a year is usually enough to keep things looking great.
Soapstone is my personal favorite for the kitchen. It doesn’t stain, it’s heat resistant, and you don’t need to seal it. It requires minimal effort and it’s ideal if you like a lived-in, soft patina.

Related Posts That Might Be Helpful
If you’re looking for more posts on natural materials, I’ve written quite a few. I’ll link some of my favorites here for you:
- Marble Maintenance & The Truth About Natural Stone
- Everything You Need to Know About Soapstone
- How to Choose a Marble Slab for Your Renovation
- How to Darken Soapstone Countertops
- Our Limestone Entryway Tile + Alternative Options

Thanks for reading through this post! I hope it helps you feel more confident as you pick the right materials for your next project. If you’re currently planning a renovation or are sourcing stone, let me know what you’re working on and I can help. I always love seeing what you’re creating, and am happy to chat in the comment section below!
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