If you’ve been following along for a while, you know I have a thing for natural materials… and soapstone countertops are one of my longtime favorites. There’s something timeless and understated about them that instantly elevates a kitchen. They feel soft and lived-in from day one, and only get better with age. However, like any surface- soapstone has its pros and cons. Whether you’re in the middle of a kitchen remodel or just dreaming of a future renovation, I wanted to share my designer insight to help you decide if this material might be the right fit for your home or kitchen.
I’ve purchased and lived with soapstone countertops for the last two kitchen renovations we’ve tackled- in both our current home and previous home. It has been my preferred countertop choice this past decade. Check out this post to read why we used soapstone in our kitchen… again! I also shared the difference between natural stones (my designer guide), which might help you narrow it down, if you’re not sold on soapstone. There are plenty of other options!
What Is Soapstone?

Soapstone is a natural stone made primarily of talc, chlorite, and dolomite. It’s dense, non-porous, and softer than granite or quartz… which gives it that signature smooth, velvety feel. The stone typically comes in soft shades of gray, charcoal, or even green, with subtle veining and flecks that add depth and movement.
One of the things I love most about soapstone is its matte finish, soft touch, and natural patina. Over time, it darkens and develops a lived-in character that really tells a story. If you appreciate materials that evolve gracefully, this is one you’ll want to consider!

Pros of Soapstone Countertops
Here’s what makes soapstone one of my personal designer favorites (and why I often recommend it for kitchens):
- Timeless aesthetic… The soft, natural look of soapstone works with nearly every design aesthetic- from traditional to modern. It’s a material that will never go out of style.
- Heat-resistant… You can set a hot pan directly on the surface without damage (a major perk if you love to cook or bake).
- Non-porous… Unlike marble or granite, soapstone doesn’t need to be sealed and naturally resists stains and bacteria. It’s a very durable material that can be used indoors or out!
- Low-maintenance… With no sealing required, it requires zero upkeep. If you prefer the darkened aged look, I do that once per year… and minor scratches can easily be buffed or oiled out.
- Aging with character… It develops a gorgeous patina over time, giving it that “perfectly imperfect” classic aesthetic and charm.
- Eco-friendly choice… Soapstone is 100% natural and often requires less processing than engineered materials.

Cons of Soapstone Countertops
As much as I love it, soapstone isn’t for everyone. Here are a few drawbacks to keep in mind before you commit:
- Soft surface… Soapstone is more prone to scratches, nicks, and dents than harder stones. The good news? Most can easily be sanded or oiled out.
- Limited color range… If you’re dreaming of bold veining or lighter tones, you might find the natural palette too subtle. It doesn’t have pattern or colors like you’d find in a marble slab.
- Darkens over time… Expect the stone to deepen in color as it oxidizes or when you apply mineral oil.
- Visible wear… High-traffic areas may show signs of use faster- especially around sinks and prep zones.
- Higher cost… While it’s not the priciest stone, quality soapstone and expert fabrication still come at a premium.

Is Soapstone Right for You?
I used to tell my clients that choosing a countertop is as much about lifestyle as it is about looks. Soapstone is ideal for anyone who:
- Appreciates authentic, natural materials that evolve and patina over time.
- Cooks often and wants a durable, heat-resistant surface.
- Doesn’t mind a bit of character (patina, scratches, or wear).
- Prefers a timeless look over trendy finishes.
It may not be the best fit if you want a surface that stays flawless forever- or if you prefer crisp, graphic veining. Soapstone tells a story… it’s beautifully imperfect with a classic look, which is exactly why I love it. I also really appreciate its durability! My friends gasp when I sit a boiling pot directly on my countertop from the burner.

Design Advice for Soapstone Countertops
As you’re designing your kitchen or dreaming of your remodel, here are a few design perks to further make a case for soapstone…
- It pairs well with any cabinetry color… You can achieve balance and contrast with both light and dark colors. You can also change the darkness of your countertop by enhancing or darkening it. It’s a versatile stone, in terms of design!
- It’s perfect for mixing metals… Soapstone’s neutral tone works beautifully with brass, polished nickel, or bronze hardware. Check out this post for my advice on how to mix metals in your home like a designer.
- It’s easy to style… Layer it with organic elements like wood cutting boards, woven textiles, or ceramic decor to keep the space feeling warm and inviting. It goes well with any material or aesthetic.

FAQ
No, they’re naturally non-porous, so there’s no need for sealing.
I shared my exact process in this post: how to darken soapstone countertops.
It does… but most scratches can be sanded out or blended with ager or mineral oil. If scratches bother you, I would not recommend soapstone.
With proper care, they can last a lifetime! This is a material that truly stands the test of time.
Absolutely. It’s moisture-resistant and performs beautifully in wet-rated environments.

Related Posts
Looking for more helpful posts for your upcoming kitchen renovation or remodel? I’ve shared a lot lately! Check them out below…
- Overlay vs Inset Cabinets: What’s Best for Your Kitchen
- How I Designed a Classic Kitchen That Still Feels Timeless
- The Kitchen Dimensions Every Designer Knows (And You Should Save)
- My Top Paint Color Picks for Dark Kitchen Cabinets
- 10 Budget-Friendly Ways to Instantly Refresh Your Kitchen
- Cabinetry Hardware Placement Guide (With Easy Examples)
- How to Replace & Upgrade Your Cabinet Doors
- What to Know About Solid Surface Countertops (Pros & Cons)
- How to Install a Hidden Kitchen Trash Can
- Ideas for Customizing a Kitchen Island Or Cart

If you’re drawn to natural beauty, warmth, and timeless interiors, soapstone countertops are a material worth considering. They’re not perfect, and that’s kind of the point. They age gracefully, tell a story, and add depth to any kitchen. Every time I use soapstone in a project, I’m reminded that some of the best design choices are the ones that evolve with you. I’m not trying to replace our countertop once it’s installed. It’s a done deal for me! Here’s to making thoughtful, lasting design decisions that are both functional and beautiful. Let me know if you have any questions in the comment section!
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